I am just so annoyed and stupefied of how terribly adults handle basic situations. if she would of told me the problems in the beginning all these upset feelings on both sides could of been avoided.
really pissed off right now
last Month I housesat. afterwards, I messaged the woman multiple times to meet up to exchange keys and so I could get paid. but every time she made excuses.
after me trying to contact her every week for a month, she FINALLY decided to tell me what was wrong. Apparently some of her plants died. I watered as instructed but I must of done something wrong. I apologized. she also said the house was a mess. looking back I neglected to clean a few things. I am owning up to that.
what makes me mad is she never confronted me. she just ignored me or put me off. I apologized and take responsibility and said I would accept her proposed reduced pay or even no pay at all. but the fact that she was acting fine this whole time and not talking to me about it pisses me off to no end.